You might try using these two methods to copy data from one grid and then move it into another.
this.gridControl1.DataExchange.CopyCellsToDataObject
this.gridControl1.DataExchange.PasteCellsFromDataObject
Here is a little snippet that moves 1 grid to another. You would have to set the paste row/col to move to the proper location.
private void button1_Click(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
{
GridData data = new GridData();
int rowCount, colCount;
GridRangeInfo range = GridRangeInfo.Table();
range = range.ExpandRange(1, 1, this.gridControl1.RowCount, this.gridControl1.ColCount);
this.gridControl1.DataExchange.CopyCellsToDataObject(out data, range, false, GridDragDropFlags.Styles, out rowCount, out colCount);
this.gridControl2.DataExchange.PasteCellsFromDataObject(data, GridRangeInfo.Cell(1,1), true, GridDragDropFlags.Styles);
}