Actually, I mis-stated the objective just slightly. Yes, the waitingpopup is what I'm looking for... however, in this case it's not a javascript call... I was remembering the wrong handler. In this case, I'm using
.RowDropSettings(drop => drop.RowDropMapper("/Products/RowDropHandler"))
Is there a way to turn on the waitingpopup during the rowmapper call? Is there a way to handle the row drop in javascript so that I can add the call as you described?