Virtual Grid Column reorder

[Administrator]

I would like to create a virtual grid that allows the user to reorder the columns.

However I have disabled the drag cursor like this
gridControl1.ControllerOptions = GridControllerOptions.All & ~GridControllerOptions.OleDataSource; because I want to handle all drag source operations.

My question is that I need to provide some feedback to the user about where the column will be moved. Your grid typically show a little "I beam" between the columns show the location the column is going to go.

But since I have tweaked gridControl1.ControllerOptions I do not get that.

1) Is there a way that I can have the grid draw this "I beam" even though ControllerOptions has been tweaked?
2) If not is there away I can turn off the Arrow-Drag cursor for the rows but leave it on for the column header?

Note: My assumbtion is that the only way to not have the Grid show the arrow-drage thing is by tweaking the ControllerOptions

[Administrator]

Moving columns by selecting them and then mousing down on the header and dragging them is controlled by the AllowDragSelectedCols property. This functionality does not depend on OLE D&D support.