Hi Badri,
If you do not set the selection flag then, the selection will become black. Here is the code snippet to avoid this.
this.gridGroupingControl1.TableOptions.AllowSelection = GridSelectionFlags.Any;
this.gridGroupingControl1.TableModel.Selections.SelectRange(GridRangeInfo.Rows(5,this.gridGroupingControl1.TableControl.Model.RowCount),true);
Refer this
sample for details
Let us know if you need further assistance,
Regards,
Madhan