In my solution, I am setting a node's IsPortEnabled property to false, per your Diagram Builder sample. A warning is output, stating that IsPortEnabled is obsolete, and that "PortVisibility covers all behaviors." Two questions arise:
Can I assume this means if I set the center port's PortVisibility is AlwaysHidden, that it will not be possible to connect to the center port
How can I reliably obtain a reference to the center connection port?